ATTITUDE

Attitude Attitude so what is attitude? From goggle attitude is  an expression of favor or disfavor toward a person, place, thing,  event.

Today just want to talk about attitude of course there is positive attitude and negative.

A couple of days I have  been asking myself a lots of queries  why some people succeed in life and others are just there. I know  you understand what I mean.  I just understood that what differentiates the two groups is the attitude in life.

Life is not easy, but it’s worth it.  If you expect it to be, you will perpetually disappoint yourself. 
Bad Attitude is  like a flat tyre you cant go anywhere with until you change it mmmh!! Achieving anything worthwhile in life takes time and effort

You must align your efforts with your goals and then start every day ready to run farther than you did yesterday and fight harder than you ever have before.

Persistence and positive attitude  is the single most common characteristic of high achievers.  They simply refuse to give up and refuse also to look life on the lower side.  The longer you hang in there, the greater the chance that something will happen in your favor.

The only thing you can absolutely control in life is how you react to things out of your control, and there’s a lot you can’t control.  The better you adapt to this reality, the more powerful your highs will be, and the more quickly you’ll be able to bounce back from the lows.  

Put most simply: Living a happy, fulfilling life means being in a state of complete acceptance of all that is, right here, right now and always keeping the right attitude.

Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.”

Evelyne):

FOLLOW YOUR HEART):-

Sometimes I watch people as they go to work or go about their daily lives. You can see it in someone’s face, eyes and body posture whether or not they are following their heart and doing what they love.Many people are  forced by circumstance.peer pressure and even families  to do stuff that they don't like.e.g careers etc

I believe it is time for each of us to wake up and connect with what we really want. And then we need to act on it. We need to take risks and have the courage to move towards our goals fearlessly with 100% commitment. 

In order to do this, we must be willing to be different, to do things differently and to challenge the expectations that others hold of us. When you begin to follow your heart, you must realize that anything that is not in line with your heart’s calling will start to fall away.

If nothing in this post resonates with you and you are happy in your life, then that is ok. Or maybe you are already living a heart driven life, and if so, then that is awesome. 

But if reading this stirs something inside of you, births new dreams and creates feelings inside your heart, then you know it is time to listen. 

A life of following your heart may be challenging, but the rewards you will receive will be enough to make it all worth it.

you have to learn to follow your heart. You can’t let other people pressure you into being something that you’re not. 

If you want God’s favor in your life, you must be the person 

He made you to be, not the person your boss wants you to be, not even the person your parents or your husband wants you to be. You can’t let outside expectations keep you from following your own heart.

PRAYING AS A COUPLE )::

Most couples, believe it or not do not pray together. I know one man who completely refuses to pray together with his lady. He says he prays by himself, but he won't pray together with his lady.

He says Praying with his lady makes him feel too uncomfortable, so he won't pray with her. He is not alone in this, very few couples actually take the time to pray together.

 

How much do you think you and your spouse could accomplish if you prayed together daily? What would happen to the amount of problems you face as a couple if you prayed together about them daily? What kind of adults will your children grow into if the two of you prayed together for them daily? Can you see why it is so important for a couple to pray together?

1.When you and your spouse hold hands and pray together, you are coming before God as a couple. It is not just you praying and it is not just your spouse praying, but the two of you praying together. You are united spiritually before God as a team. You are now operating on the level that God intended for couples to operate on. You are unified, joined together as one, partners together before God. Your prayer as a couple is sweet perfume to God.
2.Pray about your dating relationship. Give everything over to God. Let God know that you are asking His approval. Talk to God about the problems that arise. Thank Him for the opportunity to be in a relationship and the happy times you experience. You can also pray with your lover. It is a good way to help each other out with whatever stresses life brings. By praying together, you are experiencing God together.
3.Make sacrifices for each other. Be willing to serve one another. Put one another above yourselves. Find how to show love to each other. Use the love God has shown you and bring it to your lover.
4.Smile and know that God is with you. Enjoy the life that God has given the both of you. Whenever you get the chance, praise God for whatever He has poured into your life. Trust and know that God has your back. He wants what is best for the both of you.
5.One of the problems that couples have is pride. The result of this pride is the refusal to acknowledge any weaknesses, or needs, to one another. Therefore, when you pray together, you need to be honest and humble yourself before God. Allow your spouse to hear you confess your needs openly and let your spouse pray for those needs. You can't help but be drawn closer to God and closer to each other as a result.
6.Prayer develops and deepens your communication. Good communication is a fundamental key to real companionship and prayer is the hand that turns the key to open this door. If you pray individually and not together as a couple, you tend say things to the Lord that you would never say to each other in casual conversation. 

But when you learn to pray together as a couple, your spouse will hear you say those intimate things that previously only God heard. For example, when a woman hears her man praying earnestly about his situation at work, she may realize,

Wow, I had no idea this was such a difficult issue for him. The lady now knows how to better pray for her man.

 True love is meant to be for two people but lets allow GOD  to be the  third party.): 

  BY j.k Soulmate

LIVING WITHIN YOUR MEANS

 I came across this piece of article through  the  internet and i find it useful  you will know why many good number of people live a life they can hardly afford so as to impress those around them. 

Many people  as they continue to impress others days passes years goes by  and some even dont have anything they can call their own.folks immediately we will start living  within our means we will take a step ahead.

To be comfortable, live below your means as suggested below ENJOY -:


1. Redefine your definition of rich – Change it from having luxuries to meeting your basic needs and a few wants.

2. Borrow and Share – Instead of renting a movie borrow from a friend and watch it at home.


3. Avoid the mall – If you go to the mall you are more likely to impulse buy. You can buy clothes in shops and heck out for where you can get discounts.

4. Buy with cards – Avoid using electronic money.

5. Find a better deal and save the difference – Switch too cheaper service providers and you will save a lot of cash.
6. Curb your consumerism – Buy only what you need.

7. Stay Healthy – People spend a lot of money in hospitals which can be avoided of one eat well and did a bit of exercise.

8. Prepare for a rainy day – Even when things are going well do not be too comfortable. Always be prepared for the worst so that when it happens you will be able to handle it.
9. Stop competing – Being rich does not amount to happiness since we compare ourselves with others. Quit the competition and live a life you can manage.
10. Don’t let greed and deceit get the best of you – Most people want to get wealthy using shortcuts without caring who they step on. This is the reason why most countries struggle with corruption and even inflation. Aspire to be wealthy but use the right means.

SOURCE NET):

YOUR JUST UNIQUE):-

Am just tired of people comparing themselves to someone else eeeish , we  were all born unique  I believe that each and every one of us is unique in his or her own way.

I feel very disgusted when someone tries to compare me with someone  else. Gosh !!  I feel like telling  them on their faces SHUT UP HOLD YOUR HORSES AM EVE PERIOD . 

The worst mistake most of us do is when people compare us to other people and we agree and we go to an extent of  accepting that and even try to change our everything so that we can look like those people we were compare with.(mscheeeew friends  why compare yourselves to other people oops!!!)Just because you were told you don’t do stuff like that person.

No wonder even most of relationships are not even  working out reason some partners compare their spouses to other couple .Honey why don’t you dress like that couple,why don’t you cook like my mum , my siz my cousin why don’t you do like these , like that like so n so (aarrrrggggg agitated already).

The first place you were involved to that relationship c’mon good people is because you saw something special to that person and you went to  a step of asking her out and that why he/she is your spouse. .How comes now after few years your are comparing her/him to someone else.(STYLE UP)

Good  stuff are made up they don’t come up easily. You don’t like how your girl or your boy dresses. Buy her what you would wish  to see him wearing, you don’t like how she cooks dude cut that crap  take her to Cooking classes, Stop comparing your spouses to other people.

Think about it: You're like a tea bag, not worth much until you've been through some hot water. Go out on a limb, that's where the fruit is. Leave everyone a little better than you found them. Make a difference today my friend.

God has an assignment for you that no one else can do as well as you can. He doesn't expect you to be perfect, but he does expect you to use the gifts, talents, and strengths he has given you.-Jason  Mason

Put mediocrity and unfulfilled dreams where they belong - out of your life! The world desperately needs the originality only you can provide. God created you for a specific, unique purpose. He has called you not to imitate someone else, but to become all that he wants you to be. Simply put as Jason Mason once said  - You were born an original, don't die a copy

 

The doors of opportunity are marked "push". Don't spend your life standing at the complaint counter. You can't walk backwards into the future. The sky's not the limit

You were created to make a difference. You were created to live a unique and unlimited life. No one else is you, and no one else could be you.

So what holds you back from being all that God meant you to be? It's buying into the lie that you can't, won't, or shouldn't achieve your dreams.-JASON MASON

 We were created to make a difference and each and every one of us  was created for a reason  to do what nobody else can do.

We are all responsible of our lives and that why sometimes at the end of this life each and every one of us will be accountable of our own lives.

Lets stop living other peoples lives and live our own .lets us utilize every single second to make a difference.

We should not lose hope  let go the past , always remember that when we are  just down for nothing God is up for something!!!.

 Evelyne):-