ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP OOH NO!!!..

Just the other day I was listening to a  morning show on one of the local station ,the topic of the day was about “ abusive Relationship”. I don’t listen to this show  but this one just attracted my attention.

One of the callers just called in to contribute to the motion  and the information or do I call Confession that he made just left my mouth wide open.

The man who called in I thought he is just in his middle age, made a confession that I  have never forgotten up to date .He  had the audacity to call on a national FM station and confess to the entire  world what he had  done to his woman so that she can stay with him (SHM).

The man said that when he started dating his girlfriend  she was very pretty and he feared that she might cheat on him.

He just raised some issues with her one day and on the  middle of their argument, he picked a fork and destroyed her beautiful face of course the mission was complete (mssshew). This what we call total inhuman and extremely shocking.

The man is still confessing OMG.He even said that he is now married to this lady whom she destroyed her life,career,self esteem and everything in her was just destroyed by this man.
The question I was just asking myself as  I thought about writing this article was why should someone  stay in abusive relationship. 

I just  found that most people would rather die in that marriage/relationship for fear of what their friends may say about them.

Common lady!!! who would choose to die in that mad and abusive  relationship than step out of it,my advice relationship is meant for two people and the third party it does’t became a relationship anymore  but that a  multitude (hehehe) .Give all your best to that relationship and if it fails just step aside.

I have just seen many people staying in abusive relationship thinking that their partners will change from their behaviours seriously Ladies  a man who hits you once definitely he will get a reason to beat you second ,third time and forever.


For the bible says spare a rod spoil the child (prov 13:24) the bible didn’t say spare  a rod spoil a wife .Men who hit their girlfriend /wives style up (smh) ladies just know that a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviours that he loves me so much  and I will try to change him for a better person.

Allow your spirit to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that’s not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. 

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t  “be friends.” A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” 

You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. 

Its God intention  for us to live happy and enjoy life which include of that relationship. Don’t settle for anything that is not making you happy. Ladies our men should love us the way Christ love the church .

He have to make you feel like a queen or princess in that relationship, ladies for  us to be treated the rightful by our men we MUST love our men and respect then period!!! for us to get that beautiful  relationship.


EVELYNE)