Am not Dr. Love or relationship coach in any way but i believe that for a greater Relationship Love and respect goes hand in hand .
Men don't take advantage of your woman in any case LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, & LOVE her. don't take advantage of her in any case.
So you want that happy, healthier relationship that you can look at it and even boast about it. treat your woman well and i say well and with respect look down at this tips..ENJOY ):
1. Listen to your woman, don’t just
hear the syllables but hear what she is saying – Honestly speaking, many of us men do not listen to our
wives. We pretend to be listening but rarely do we listen and hear what they
are saying. When she complains about your coming late, she is actually saying
she is missing you and wants to spend more time with you.
2. Tell her often that you love her.
Words are important to a woman
– use words often to tell her how much you love her. Remember, any words of
love, affection and admiration spoken to your wife will expire at midnight. You
therefore have to tell her everyday how much you love her using words. Don’t
assume that she can see that you love her, she is not a man, she is a woman and
women want to hear your voice.
3. Make your woman feel safe when
she is with you – Your wife should be safe with you
and should get protection from you. Protect her, make her feel safe and be her
covering in good times and in bad.
When she comes to you, her fear should disappear. You are her warrior, her
knight in shining armor, her rescuer-er, her man. Do not take advantage of her,
do not betray her need for your protection but make her safe.
4. Never ever hit your woman –Do not hit her physically or with words. Do not speak to
her in anger, do not abuse her and do not hit her ever. Your hands are for
holding her, lifting her and caressing her not for hitting, hurting or harming.
Let her always know that she can ran into your arms for comfort, love and
support.
5. Lead your woman don’t lord over
her – She is not your slave or servant,
she is your lover, your wife, your woman. Lead her well, lead her with wisdom
and take care of her. Show leadership by being available at home, by spending
time with her and by dealing with issues
6. Cherish your woman – she is not an object to be used but a valuable person to
be cuddled, cared for and cherished. Before you look longingly at her body,
lovingly take care of her heart. Lift the heavy stuff, carry the baby, the bags
and the shopping and let her carry the newspaper (hehehehe).
7. Your commitment to your woman
should be greater than your commitment to your job, your parents or your
friends – Stop hanging out with the boys
and leaving your woman all by herself at home. Honestly, that is not being a
man, that is outright mean. Staying in the office till 9pm and then showing up
and refusing to eat is plain stupid (ouch), go home early, go and build your
marriage. If you died today, your company will hire a replacement even before
you are buried but your wife will never replace you.
8. Let your actions speak of love –To a woman, a love that is not seen is not love. Hold her,
caress her, play with her and lift her. Your actions should show love to your
woman and those who see you. Your woman will blossom like precious flower when
she knows even those around know how much she is loved.
9. Be open and vulnerable to your
woman – admit your fears, your struggles
and your failures. Let her know how and when she can encourage you. When she
does not know what is chasing you, she will not be able to help you in the way
she is meant to.
10. Love God with all your heart and
serve Him – Every man has a God that he
believes in.. You will cherish and care for your woman and you will seek to
love her because in doing so, you will be honoring God. Let God be your leader,
the one you bow to and worship not all these other “gods” who causes you to
cherish others things and end up hurting and ruining your woman and your
relationship.
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