Just wondering !!!!! when men want to marry
Trust me most of them goes to church Why ? Is it because there are no perfect match for them
there outside to Marry or what? Someone give me answer to this please.
Ok!
Many single ladies are in a hurry to have a boyfriend or get married which is
still cool . They are ready to grab a guy from a street or in a bar and then
blame them for cheating, unlike Men who seriously takes half of their life time
before they settle down with women of there dream.**Yes Trust Me**
I believe a real woman doesn’t settle
for less she know what she is worth even if it mean waiting for decades to get
Mr Right.But the problem most ladies have is that we don’t want to wait .
Trust me God always have a good plans
for us he has our prince charming,(Mr Right)
If only you had waited on God for a mate, you
can escape this tragedy. God will always give you the best one but the problem
is ... We want to date and them blame our spouse for their wickedness I’m willing to bet you THAT GOOD GUYZ DO EXIST .
Okay, so you may be struggling to
come to grips with that ugly truth. Or maybe you just want to slap me( hehehe)
go ahead girl truth is always bitter). We ladies we wanna do clubbing Monday to
Monday and we expect to find Mr Right at the club? (speaking my heart).As I had said earlier on why do men go to church
to find their future wives. I think I got the answer now.
I get it. But give me a chance Here,
because what you're about to learn can lead you to recognize the right guy and
show you how to keep him around. Yes, you may have made mistakes, but the worst
mistake of all is not learning from them.
I know what you’re thinking: “No
way. I only ever meet jerks who just want one thing.”
And I still stick to my original
point Good men do exist !!!. Yeah, some of the guys you meet are bound to be
losers. But just because a guy withdraws or tells you he doesn’t want “anything
serious” doesn’t mean he’s not worth your time STYLE UP & BE A LADY show
that jerk that he got more than he deserved lol (hehehehe).
The truth is We ladies we wanna like
things done faster faster especially when it comes to matter pertaining
relationship but the truth is guys have a different pace when it comes to
relationships than you do. You might be on date three thinking that you're
already in a relationship (what I call the “instant relationship”), while he's
just thinking you're getting to know each other.
It takes time for a man - especially
one who is a good catch - to decide that you're a woman he can't live without.
He needs time and lots of different feel-good experiences with you in order for
him to develop that kind of deep attraction that makes him want to take things
to the next level.
If you try to rush this process, you
risk scaring him away - sometimes for good. When you're out with a guy and you
have “an agenda”, he can sense it. It makes him feel like you have a job
description for him to fill, and it makes him wonder if you really want him for
who he is.
I hate to tell you this, but some of
those guys you’ve met were actually good guys you weren’t connecting with in
the RIGHT way. In short, you may have pushed the right guy away by doing the
wrong thing.
“I hate to tell you this, but some of those
guys you’ve met were actually good guys you weren’t connecting with in the
RIGHT way.”
If you’ve ever considered giving
your guy an “ultimatum” about getting serious or taking things to the “next
level” in your relationship, there’s something you need to know.
Men don’t respond to deadlines,
ultimatums or “all or nothing” demands when it comes to making a real long-term
commitment to a woman.(mmmmh).
You might get his attention
temporarily and have him try and “act” better for a few weeks or months. But
you won’t have gotten at the root of the problem in your relationship.
What’s more, making these kinds of
demands or pleas often brings out the worst in a man.
It causes a man to withdraw, act
distant, get angry and irritated with you, and start questioning whether he
should be with you at all. Yes, even the good guys.
Evelyne ):
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