WHAT LADIES NOTICE ON MEN ON THE FIRST DATE

Most important thing to remember is that Women size you up as soon as you say “hello.  And you know what they say about first impressions, you only get to make one. So make yours count. Below are visual cues a woman immediately notices and how you can get it right.

1. YOUR SHOES: WHY IT MATTERS : If eyes are the window to the soul, then shoes are the window to your style. Wear the wrong ones, and you will send a less than ideal message. If they look flimsy, she will suspect you are a cheap. If they are dirty and worn down, she will think you do not care about your appearance (and will wonder what else you do not care about)..

2. THE WAY YOU SAY HELLO: WHY IT MATTERS:. A greeting is the first opportunity to present yourself the way you want to be seen. Your handshake, smile and “hello” all contribute.
HOW TO GET IT RIGHT: Be confident, but friendly. Do not look past the lady, or up and down her frame before you reach our face. Of course, if you can barely make eye contact from nerves, that is not very appealing either. Look her in the eye, smile warmly, and repeat her name (to help you remember it). And never underestimate the power of a firm handshake

3. YOUR HANDS: WHY IT MATTERS: Since we are already talking about handshakes, let us discuss the state of your skin. I know that “Moisturize” probably is not high on your list of daily “To Do list.” But rough hands are not something ladies want to put up with. No one wants to touch scaly skin. Even if you think moisturizing is not “manly,” it is in your best interest to keep your skin smooth..

4. YOUR LOO: WHY IT MATTERS: There are, of course, big fashion deal breakers guys (hopefully) know not to make. Showing up to a date in an “I’m with Stupid” t-shirt, for instance. Or walking into a business meeting wearing your favorite soccer team jacket.

HOW TO GET IT RIGHT: Do a full-mirror scan before you leave your house. Do you look put together? Is your hair combed? Your shoelaces tied? Does your belt match your shoes? A quick once-over will save you from little mistakes in a first impression.

5. YOUR WATCH: WHY IT MATTERS: Women do not expect every man to flex a Rolex, but they do expect you to wear a man’s – not a kid’s – watch. No Mickey Mouse faces. No calculator watches. And nothing made of rubber if you are not running a marathon.

6. YOUR GRAMMAR: WHY IT MATTERS: Even in the first exchange of “Hello’s” and “Hi my name is” pleasantries, ladies are making judgments. They notice if you’re using big words or not, if you say “umm,” call them “chick” or “babe,” and if your vocabulary is riddled with curses.

7. YOUR HAIR: WHY IT MATTERS: The way you wear your hair says a lot about you. A comb over trying to cover up a bald patch – you’ll seem insecure. Greasy locks that look like they have not been washed in days – a total turn-off.

via jk soulmate