Lipstick on a man’s collar was
always the traditional dead giveaway, but nowadays things aren’t so simple.
Both sexes cheat and in this day and age, you’d think it would be easy to spot
a cheater, but it oftentimes it isn’t. Is your lover being unfaithful?
1. Change In Love Making Session.
If things are drastically different
in the bedroom, that’s a potential sign. Has your partner suddenly lost
interest in having sex with you? Or maybe your lovemaking sessions have been
less passionate.
On the other hand, sometimes a
cheater will overcompensate by having more sex with you. And if your notice
some new tricks in the bedroom, it could be that your partner learned them by
sleeping with someone else.
2. Change In Behavior.
Has your partner become more
secretive all of a sudden? Does he or she seem to want more privacy lately?
And what about comings and goings?
Do you notice that your honey is coming home late more often or maybe not at
all? When you question this behavior are you given vague generalized answers?
When the phone rings, does your
partner take the call in the other room? If you ask who it was, is the response
“a friend?”
3. Technology can also give clues.
Technology can also give clues as to
whether your lover is cheating. Do you notice strange numbers on your partner’s
phone lately? Does he or she seem to be getting more texts than usual?
Then there’s email and computer use.
Has your honey opened a new private email account that’s off limits to you? You
may also notice that your partner seems to be spending more time on the
computer or smartphone lately. A huge indicator is when you happen to walk into
the room. Does he or she close the screen right away?
This great digital divide often
means that some deceitful behavior is going on.
4. Guilt-ridden behavior.
Aside from being secretive, if you
observe guilt-ridden behavior in your mate, that’s another clue.
Generally your partner will look
away or avoid eye contact with you at certain times, particularly when you
broach the subject of “the friend” or bring up the issue of fidelity.
Another manifestation of guilt is
your partner treating you extra special all of a sudden—showering you with
gifts, taking you out more often, etc. This is to make up for a guilty
conscience.
If you notice most or all of these
clues, there’s a good chance that your lover is cheating. Be watchful!
by Dennis Maladit
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